How to be a powerful woman...

Saturday, 14 August 2010 18:13

how_to_be_a_powerful_woman_seherezada.netFear of change?
All the same! Where do I go to meet him? I'm tired of trying!
That's your thinking? That you think about men?


I'm afraid for you, your future does not sound right with that thought.
Rather than changing your partner, family landscape, "comfortable" you better doing a compromise in you may swallow a bitter pill, until life itself will reach a compromise that will leave your only bitterness in the mouth and in your soul.

Fear of loneliness?
Than to be alone with her, the woman is able to swallow him and accept his fights, alcohol and bad adventures.
Fear of abandonment?
Abandoned woman wants to return by any means in his arms, even for one night to show him what he was losing.

Fear of rejection?
Lack of trust and power, woman clinging to a man and becomes slave, addicted to him and of relationship it was.

What resounds in your mind: Where I was wrong that he leave me?
How to miss the chance to blame you, to devalue yourself: I wasn’t pretty good! I don’t worth him! I’m not worthy of love and respect!
Fulfilling prophecy! Applause?? What you thought was true! Congratulations! So you have to do from now! Also prior to the abyss! Do not change: you're perfect as you are! Repeat yourself: This is me, who loves me; he takes me as I am. True!  That happens when you have completed your personal courses for development and esteem and inner strength are close to stars.
Do not change because others say, you change because you feel that this current attitude not go you ahead, but it even anchors you more in the past. Understand?
You make changes to become better, to live a quality life.

I feel like a crazy! Without him my life has no sense!

You are addicted to him, and when he leaves, disappearing from the landscape, you are lost; you struggle between life and death.
Althea Horner says: Just as some people use others as a mirror to assure that there are, other people use their peers as a mirror to define them, to tell them who they are.
From here the despair and the feeling dead inside.
If he leaves, you lose your identity, yourself.

What you are facing when he leaves?

Separation anxiety, is like a mother would leave the child just born, you live the same suffocating feeling.

What are you doing?

You realize that the attitude of desperate help you to drive any man of your visual range?
Are you aware that a man does not want with him a desperate, a slave or a press?
What can attract him, excite him to a press woman who reject her, which accepting any package that comes with him?
Passive and desperate beggar! Wow-death of passion! How do you want a man want you when he did not call good the first time and you answer and begged to come home, to get reconciled, to forgive you that you have dared to say your opinion.
Are you normal? Where is your dignity, self-esteem?
Where is your life?
Your life revolves around him?
Then bury yourself now because you'll never part of a trip in two relaxing and sunny. Sorry for you, but you are on a wrong way.
All well and good up here, let's go further, let's see how you strikes him in your fascinating universe:
Shower with cold water: you strip away from old attitudes and behaviors and wash yourself, make sure that to the exit of shower you're a new person, wanting a new life, respect and esteem.

Rebuild your self-image: From now you behave differently than you did before. Reserved and mysterious. Hard to find and to conquer.
Men are warriors, they have a competitive spirit: for what they fight if you give up on the tray?
Desire dies from the start, if you're free and available to him, any time he call and have mood for sex. Stop! Sell yourself expensive! Play your cards right if you want him. So: keep away! And in that time working on your image, physical, spiritual attitude. Read, grow up, run 5 km a day, beautify it, get ready for great adventure.
Dignity and respect for yourself: you bury your dream to get married and make five children for this time until you regain your self-esteem, inner strength.
When a man feels like you're desperate, and that you want to condition him along you, as you long for marriage and children, he runs as he keep his feet.  

Occupy of yourself: physical appearance and spiritual: healthy eating, sports and entertainment, you have no time to lose, you're a busy woman, passionate and lively. You build your life, live your life - that's your motto: Carpe Diem.
Do not spend your time waiting for him to come; to get you out to dinner, to decide what he wants from you. You do only of everything that’s in you.
It’s clear?
How much more lose of his hands and eyes, the more he wants with him.
So? Run! Hide! Let yourself be courted by other men! Play! Train yourself for the great shot!
Immediately drops his interest if he sees that you don’t put value on you that you give up for him. After you meet your personal needs, you have time for him, rest.

Femininity and seduction:
Men dream with open eyes to be seduced by a woman.
Selection process: even though you know he is, you want him, is the ideal man, he don’t have to know that he is the chosen one. Not at first, in the first months, otherwise he will find you a desperate seeking to enter into a relationship at all costs, and he wants you to pick the best, most intelligent, best at. He wants to conquer you by his traits, his abilities and his personality. And if you tell him you want a relationship with him in the first month, he understands that you want relationship with him or with another one, it’s the same, only one not to be.

Independence and confidence
You have no time for serious relationships, you build a career and a life lived. You need space and holidays. You have a dream and you want to live as quickly and keep your energy for your goals and desires. That must hear him from your mouth and eyes. It would be ideal to have in your head and plan, this life style. If you still do not have it pretend you like it and this hold you busy all the time and let him hope that in the moment that you want to engage in a long term relationship, he makes part of your potential candidates for partner, put him on the bench.

Adorable and inaccessible: What could be more appealing than that? Nothing! Art of seduction means to keep your confidence and mystery. Get out! Have fun! Live your life! He will go after you, he will concern on you and he will beat his head how to make you his girl or his wife.
You send security, confidence, he breathes desire and attraction.
Mae West said, good girls go to heaven; bad girls go where they want them!
I completed as follow: When you’re a product by disappear, you present interest, you put everyone in line. If you are merchandise stands, you are touch by all, but no one wants you.
Conclude by telling you: Be precious! Be adorable and inaccessible, so:
Back off the phone and voice mail. Phone call, you do not hear it ... you're a busy woman, in case you forgot.. :-))
Make him burn of desire in your absence by your magnetic and captivating presence. You're different than the rest, remember?
Endangered product!
Give him a little and then stop, back off. You want to seduce him? Then forget the messages like: I love you! I want you just for me! You are the man of my dreams! I want to make you a baby! I'm desperate! I want that we reconcile, I can’t live without you! You are the only you, blah blah blah. Stop! Stop if you want to see him in front again.

 

Comments 

 
+1 #1 Irina 2011-12-12 11:20 Loved your article! You're so right about all those bad believes about men and ourselves that we need to let go. We can't enjoy our beauty and our seductiveness if we hold onto that. A free woman is very sexy! Thank you for your work!! :) Quote
 





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